Author: xmasstocking

When the realization that the need for my hands-on mothering was no longer warranted or wanted by the youngest of my kids (at 15 and 13), I felt a jolt. All of a sudden there appeared a chasm between myself and what had essentially been my job for the last 23 years. In other words,… Continue reading loathing in the time of Covid

For my second post I was going to write about something cute my 14-year-old said to me because she realizes I am an “older” mother. I actually am…I turned 40 and birthed her 2 days later. But NO! Fuck that and let’s talk aging vaginas. After my first post, my BOMB sister-in-law reminded me that… Continue reading dear god what is happening?

I would love to be a woman who felt that aging is a spiritual and magical experience. But I’m not. I am a pragmatic person and although I do believe that aging has its positives, for the ego, it blows. Also, I think it is much more clunky for women. Men seem to become more… Continue reading xoxoxo…

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